It’s not your fault that you believed they meant what they said. It’s not your fault that you believe people because why would anybody purposely lie to you? Why can they go in with bad motives?
It’s not necessarily you or your words or your heart, sometimes it’s the type of people they are. The type of love they ’re used to. The condition of mind they’re in. The thirst they have for attention. Their fragile egos that find delight in breaking hearts. It’s not your fault they’re emotionally unavailable and playing games just to prove something to themselves or others.
Sometimes they find delight in winning over somebody amazing like you if they don’t want to maintain you. Sometimes it’s really not your fault.
It’s not your fault you saw potential and decided to take a chance. It’s not your fault that you tried to be open and positive without being overly guarded. It’s not your fault you didn’t find it coming. It’s not your fault they whined.
It’s not your fault that you went with the stream, which you’re impulsive, which you gave your heart to somebody who kept requesting it. It’s not your fault because you didn’t start any of it and you didn’t end it.
It’s not your fault so stop asking questions and overanalyzing and believing that something must be horribly wrong with you. It’s not your fault that somebody is not ready for what you’re ready for. It’s not your fault that somebody can’t meet you wherever you are. Sometimes it’s a boon in disguise.
Since sometimes our hearts will need to maneuver for the wrong ones so they can recognize the most suitable one. Sometimes our hearts will need to believe all the lies so they can appreciate the truth.
It’s not your own fault. It always takes two. And should you would like to actually balance the equation, then you need to look at the other person. You need to understand that they also played a significant role in making you believe. Sometimes there’s nothing wrong with you personally and it’s them which require a good deal of work. A good deal of fixing. A good deal of healing before they could understand what it actually means to allow somebody else in.